July 31st, 2009

FILL THE VOID

Posted by mandatory at 11:50 PM on July 31, 2009.

The two main emotional voids to fill are insecurity and unhappiness. The insecure are suckers for any kind of social validation and as for the chronically unhappy, they look for the roots of their unhappiness. The insecure and the unhappy are the people least able to disguise their weaknesses.

The ability to fill their emotional voids is a great source of power, and an indefinitely prolongable one.

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deliriousdelight

Comment posted on August 4th, 2009 at 11:14 PM

ouch mandy alright? ouch!haha.

greenlife. i can so relate. hehe.

ako naman, i recognize my insecurities, but i hide them if i can, as consciously as i can, while trying to work on it internally. i'm not sure if it works. quite, i suppose. i hope. =p

i think showing your extreme vulnerabilities to people who can't be trusted is like a betrayal to yourself.

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greenlife

Comment posted on August 1st, 2009 at 12:01 AM

I am insecure, I am unhappy. does that make me less of a human?

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mandatory

Comment posted on August 1st, 2009 at 12:16 AM

Of course not. We all have weaknesses, and our efforts are never perfect, thus create void in our hearts.

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greenlife

Comment posted on August 1st, 2009 at 12:17 AM

hmmm good. But I do recognize my insecurities. an evidence of growth. right?

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mandatory

Comment posted on August 1st, 2009 at 12:26 AM

I'm proud that you recognize your insecurities babydoll, only a few can do that. And mostly, they're the ones who strive to change for the better.

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greenlife

Comment posted on August 1st, 2009 at 12:32 AM

I tried to recognize them real hard. I have compared myself to people most of the time and the more I do it, the more I am bound to a miserable life, the more I became vulnerable to jealousy and insecurity. The secret to a happy life maybe, is to accept things as they are.

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mandatory

Comment posted on August 1st, 2009 at 12:54 AM

I feel the same. The secret to a happy life for me maybe, is to accept things as they are and be accepted for who you are.

To chnage for the better is a slow and gradual process. You need motivation and support.

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greenlife

Comment posted on August 1st, 2009 at 01:02 AM

Well, we change, we grow, whether it's sluggish, whether we change fast or grow fast, we just have to accept things. By accepting things we will become happy and contented.

Hmmm.. we are making so much sense this time. LOL.

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mandatory

Comment posted on August 1st, 2009 at 01:06 AM

Hehehe! Cheers to that! Let the Moon shine on us! ;-)

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greenlife

Comment posted on August 1st, 2009 at 01:11 AM

He he he. LOL. the moon shall help us wipe out all these insecurities. I just want to fall in love again. You know how that feels right?

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mandatory

Comment posted on August 1st, 2009 at 01:53 PM

I know how that feels and you will fall in love again. It will come the least time you expect it. Have faith. *hugs*